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When Your Nervous System Is Trying to Tell You Something

...the problem isn’t always discipline, motivation, or productivity...sometimes you’re just lonely.

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What We’ll Cover This Week:

• Why pushing harder online can sometimes make loneliness worse
• How your nervous system sends alarm signals long before burnout
• The hidden cost of losing real-world connection and community
• A simple body scan to help you listen to what your system is actually asking for

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Hey Reader,

If I’m being honest…I’ve been feeling pretty off this entire month.

For most of February I kept trying to figure out what was “wrong.”

Maybe my hormone levels were off.
Maybe it was the middle of winter.
Maybe it’s because Massachusetts feels like a frozen tundra this time of year and the sun disappears for months...which this year feels ESPECIALLY difficult...

All reasonable theories. But none of them actually explained *this* current feeling.

You can call it seasonal depression, but honestly… I’m familiar with that. I mean, I’m Buffalonian. This is different. It feels deeper.

It’s more like a feeling of misalignment. That sense that no matter what I do with the business, nothing really seems to move the needle.

Almost like fishing with great bait. The worms are good, the setup is right, and every once in a while you feel a nibble. Then another nibble.

But when you reel the line in… the worms are gone. And somehow there’s still nothing to show for it.

So like a good business person in 2026, I did what we’re told to do.

I pushed harder online.

More posting.
More content.
More LinkedIn activity.
More trying to “get my face out there.”

Because apparently that’s the formula now.

If you want to succeed you must:

• create content
• build a personal brand
• stay visible
• show up online every day

So I tried to push through it. And the strange thing was…

the harder I pushed online, the worse I felt.

Not because the work itself was hard... it's just... posting online. When you're used to a physical job, "posting content" as a job sounds ridiculous haha.

But because every time I logged off, the same feeling was still there. And I guess I just didn't want to admit that this is what it was.

Overwhelming loneliness.

The realization I didn’t want to admit...

It finally hit me this week.

For most of my adult life I was surrounded by people.

When I worked at the fire station, every shift meant meeting new humans.
Sometimes at their worst moments.
Sometimes in chaos.
Sometimes in situations none of us asked for.

But there were always people.

Faces.
Voices.
Energy in the room. Stories to share.

And over the last year… especially the last seven months…

That disappeared.

Now most days the only beings I see in person, at least until Nick gets home, are my dogs.

Which, to be fair, are fantastic company.

But they are not exactly known for deep philosophical conversations.

Your nervous system knows before your brain does...

Here’s the interesting part.

Your nervous system usually figures things out long before your mind catches up.

Mine had been sending signals for weeks:

• fatigue
• back pain creeping back in
• low motivation
• that vague sense of something being “off”

I kept trying to analyze it logically.

But my body had already figured out the problem. I just wasn't listening.

It was missing community.

Real people.
Real conversations.
Real energy.

Not just comment sections and notifications.

So this week I stopped trying to “optimize” the feeling. Instead I listened.

I went back to boxing... despite the back pain I ironically kept putting off boxing because of.
I started getting outside again.
I reintroduced some of the routines that used to make me feel like myself.

Even after that massive snowstorm last week.

And something shifted. Nothing dramatic.

Just…better.

More grounded.
More energized.
More like my nervous system had finally exhaled.

Lean in with me for a second...

Your nervous system has an alarm system. It’s not always loud at first.

Sometimes it whispers.

Fatigue.
Tension.
Restlessness.
A sense that something just isn’t right.

Most of us try to override it. Because that's the logical thing to do.

Push harder.
Work more.
Distract ourselves.

But those signals aren’t random. They’re information.

Your body is trying to tell you something about what it needs. Not what productivity culture says you should need.

What you need.

A simple place to start...

If you want to get better at hearing those signals, start with something simple.

A body scan.

Just a few minutes of actually paying attention to what your body is feeling instead of powering through it.

I recorded a short one you can try here:

🎧 [Body Scan Practice]

You might be surprised.

And honestly, don’t question what your body might be trying to say.

For me, it had been telling me to start my day with bone broth and a grapefruit, go back to boxing a few days a week, and prioritize more in-person connection… along with a few other things, like listening to my intuition a little more.

Since I started doing those things, it’s made a world of difference.

So consider it an experiment. A test.

See what your body has to say. Notice the first things that come up. Write em down! Try them for the next few weeks and see how you feel.

That is the first step in building that nervous system regulation trust between your mind and body.

Latest Podcast Episode

And if you missed the latest podcast episode, I talked about the recent Massachusetts snowstorm and something bigger underneath it: how hustle culture and burnout conditioning quietly train high achievers to push through situations that probably should have been a collective pause.

Apple Podcast - [Burnout, Productivity & Power: Why High Achievers Are Still Expected to Work During a Blizzard]

Spotify -

Burnout, Productivity & Powe... Feb 26 · Hustle Rebels: Burnout &... 26:52   ​

As always, I appreciate you guys and always here if you have questions or even a chat.   If you have resonated with this newsletter, please feel free to reply back. I'd love to hear what you guys are going through and if I can help in any way.

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- Renae

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